"He [Christ] abides with that, just as He loved the Church and handed Himself over on her behalf, the two may love each other with perpetual fidelity

through mutual self-bestowal" Gaudium et Spes (The Church in the Modern World)


Congratulations on your engagement! We are delighted to help you and your spouse prepare for and celebrate your life together, as husband and wife. Please keep in mind the following when preparing for your wedding at St. Bernadette's:

  • First Thing - Contact the Pastor! Fr. Patrick Carrion is happy to walk you and your spouse through the wedding preparation process.​

  • Don't Book the Reception Venue Just Yet - A church's schedule can be just as busy, if not more, than a reception hall. We ask that couples refrain from booking the reception hall until they've made arrangements with the church. Booking a wedding officiant, as well as the church, can take some coordinating.

  • Plan For (at least) 6 Months of Wedding Preparation - Wedding preparation can take time, and ideally it should - this is an important time in your life as a couple! We ask that couples contact Fr. Patrick at least six months prior to their potential wedding date. This allows necessary time to complete important paperwork, to think about your wedding liturgy, to pray together as a couple, and to participate in the marriage preparation option that best fits your needs as a couple. If you have exceptional circumstances (military deployment, terminal illness, etc.), please contact us as soon as possible so that we can work with you to accelerate the process.